Equality and Defensiveness what not.

Lets get it straight.

Novocaine.
That's my favourite pain killer.

Sometimes in life you just feel the pain but you can't let it go.
Sometimes in life people give you pain but you just can't do anything but to grit your teeth and take it in.
Sometimes you give yourself pain in life, but you really intentional do it and don't intend on letting it go either.

Sometimes, in part of your life, one rascal just has to show up and screw all your EFFORTS in PRE-PLANNING something or scheduling something. Yes, regardless of whether you have it planned and systematically allocated over a useful life or planning for something 10 years ahead. SOME bloody sucker just have to come in and fck it up. Stuff happens.

However, we tend to feel less upset when it is a condition that is somehow compulsory or something beyond our control wrecks our plan. Basically, we feel hopeless and frustrated when our plans get overturned. But we, feel less upset when its a condition that is reasonable. Like how we can't control the economics.

We won't blame the economics for our loss of profit in shares but we will blame the agent and the consultants for not telling us advice in advance (regardless of whether they did give us a warning, the tendency is to blame others before blaming ourselves).

So, after that kind of short discussion.
If you actually imagine that everything is under your control, it would not relate to such an upset condition and you would fare better in life because you would account for such problems perhaps maybe 2 weeks ahead.

You can start by thinking, "Perhaps this was my fault for not accounting for this and that......etc." You would develop yourself better.

You would calculate and anticipate for HIGHER RASCALS and higher LIFE WRECKERS in your life EVER.
That's how that pessimistic theory of Morris or whatever came up with anyway.
To assume the worst.

So, lesson learnt. Next time, will account for all kinds of things.
Including the people factor and failure factor. Then lets just see what God has in store for me.
In the meantime, thank God cause I'm still alive.